All my life I have never known anyone who wanted to take care of me unconditionally. Maybe I have a couple of friends and ex girlfriends who have been helpful, but all the actions are mutual. Had I not been kind to each one of them, they won't be kind to me. I sometimes wish people will be more kind to us even if they are not getting anything from us. It's supposed to be the golden rule. I don't understand why none of us have been doing this. I mean I am also guilty of this.